Sunday, July 31, 2016

Heartbroken

Today I heard of one heartbreak. Yesterday another.
And my heart breaks too for these are my friends my family
Devis latest attempt at having a baby didn't come to fruition .
This is totally depressing.
They are in tears.
So many hope pinned on this. It was too much to bear I guess.

They have been married now 7 years. That's a long time to be trying for a child. We were blessed with ours in our 5th year of marriage that seemed long. How much longer is this.

Trouble is of course... that they don't only bear their own heartache. They also bear that of their two sets of parents.  And their parents don't ache only for themselves but for their kids. So it's all too much. Each for themselves and for others looping back to theirs. 

How do you console someone who is trying is trying so hard? And not succeeding?
How do we advise them to be patient. To wait.  That God has a plan that only he knows best and he will provide when the time is right. 

Sutha  too.  Today I prayed for her to find her soul mate.
And for malar and jeroen to have kids
And siva to find his soul mate
And now devi everyday devi to be blessed with children. 

What's in their life? Are there children?  Should they stop trying for kids and get on with life?

Should they consider adopting?
I'm sure they have thought of such things themselves
Do they want to  give themselves a deadline and try other option?
Surrogacy.

Please god show us the light. 

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

UK Politics

The politics in UK is just mind boggling and baffling and comedic disastrous.
Every day I read something new and I just.. my heart drops.
I was in the UK the day the Brexit was announced.
The people are just marooned with no leaders
democracy at it's absolute nightmarish worst

So here's what happened, as I see it.

a year or so back, cameron promised the people, if they vote him in again, he will have a referendum to seek the people's views about whether they should stay with or leave the EU.

he is voted in.

he starts the referendum.

and now we know, he had no plan as to what to do if they lost the referendum - i.e. if they actually exited the EU

then, people, damn unhappy about lots of things, decided voting out of the EU was the way to show their unhappiness

and voila -
overnight, Britain exits the EU. well not quite - decided though, that in two years time, they are out.

just like that.

and mr cameron, who promised the referendum in return for being voted in, stepped down as prime minister the day the referendum results came out. very poetic truly -" I am not the captain to man this ship"... bollocks as the british would say! lead them into a mess and then leave. perfect.

people are dumb. They assumed, there would be a plan if they voted out.
politicians are dumb. They thought, no way would they be voted out. no need to plan.
the opposition were dumb. just clamour - no way we can get our way, let's just make noise - no need for a plan.

and so the tower collapsed.

so, day 1, captain of the ship leaves.

end of week 1. captain of opposition team steps down. says he was stabbed in the back! Boris = the boorish boris whom everyone expected to run for prime minister, as he was forerunner in campaign for leave, steps down 2 hours before he was expected to run. seems his first mate decided to run for captaincy and took the crew with him.

Bloody joke!

And end of week 2.... Mr Farage - my god, you should have seen him celebrate the day they learned they are to be voted out - to be celebrated as UK's independent day, he said - he steps down! saying, I only wanted us out - my job is done.

I just can't believe this.

The UK is four nations - millions of people being led by jackasses.

1. how can cameron step down with no succession plan?
2. for that matter, how can Obama step down with no succession plan?
3. Back to UK - who are these clowns - Boris, Farage - leading people out of the UK with no plan and then stepping down?

The world is screwed.

or maybe just the UK. the world will function fine without them - it's our own post-colonial hang up thinking they are some kind of leaders - they have worse politics that India ! laughing stock.

the other three should get together and boot Britain out - Scotland, Northern Ireland and Wales - they would do well together and would be welcome back to the EU and Britain can just hang around like a puppy out in the rain.

Unbelieveable.

One lady has come forth to lead the country - from cameron's side - damn brave - she's willing to lead the country out of the EU when she did not believe in it - when the people who led the leave team are leaving like a bunch of cowards.

the whole country needs LTLT.

unbelievable.

in 1949 Britain ruled the world.
in 2016 Britain is a joke.
66 years downhill and never a way up
farewell 'great britain'


Monday, July 4, 2016

Quit

I feel like quitting again
I don't agree with what our reps say
Too sticky too dogmatic
Not willing to try to consider too sensitive
Blowing away partners with out beuracracy
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