Heartbroken

Today I heard of one heartbreak. Yesterday another.
And my heart breaks too for these are my friends my family
Devis latest attempt at having a baby didn't come to fruition .
This is totally depressing.
They are in tears.
So many hope pinned on this. It was too much to bear I guess.

They have been married now 7 years. That's a long time to be trying for a child. We were blessed with ours in our 5th year of marriage that seemed long. How much longer is this.

Trouble is of course... that they don't only bear their own heartache. They also bear that of their two sets of parents.  And their parents don't ache only for themselves but for their kids. So it's all too much. Each for themselves and for others looping back to theirs. 

How do you console someone who is trying is trying so hard? And not succeeding?
How do we advise them to be patient. To wait.  That God has a plan that only he knows best and he will provide when the time is right. 

Sutha  too.  Today I prayed for her to find her soul mate.
And for malar and jeroen to have kids
And siva to find his soul mate
And now devi everyday devi to be blessed with children. 

What's in their life? Are there children?  Should they stop trying for kids and get on with life?

Should they consider adopting?
I'm sure they have thought of such things themselves
Do they want to  give themselves a deadline and try other option?
Surrogacy.

Please god show us the light.