Friday, April 2, 2021

what is friendship

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What is friendship but 

us giggling under a shared umbrella 
on the way to the bus stop, 
the rain drenching us anyway; 

us whispering to each other 
in the school hall at assembly
till we get sent out to stand in the back;

us chatting non-stop 
as we run round the field
during hockey practice 

us calling the other without fail 
on the stroke of midnight on our birthdays 
well before cellphones became appendages; 

us waiting for the other, 
hours on end if need be,
for there must be a good reason;

us forgiving each other 
for our idiocy, 
the words spoken out of turn;

us wiping the other's tears 
after each heartbreak,
ever loyal, never forgiving the guy;

us hearing that song on the radio
and bobbing in tune, remembering 
our wild days at Kilimanjaro;

us saying the things 
the other needs to hear 
even if we would rather not listen;

us picking up from a conversation 
just like yesterday 
even if months have rolled by;

us holding fast to the other 
even if oceans swell between us
today.


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what is friendship but 

us forgiving each other 
for our idiocy, 
for the rage, 
the words spoken out of turn

us waiting for the other,
hours on end if need be
for there must be a good reason

us wiping the other's tears 
after each heartbreak 
pouring scorn on the guy
who could not see your worth 

us whispering to each other 
in the school hall
and chatting as we jog 
around the track at the start of hockey practice 

picking up from a conversation just like yesterday 
even if sometimes months have rolled by 

us calling the other without fail 
on the stroke of midnight on our birthdays 
on landlines well before cellphones became appendages 

our fierce loyalty to the other 
the ready shoulder to cry on
our love for the other 
to love the other knowing all our flaws 
and loving anyway

seeing your children as mine
and mine as yours 
and knowing that we can turn to the other 
if (when) they hurt us? 

1the courage to speak honesty
even if we would rather not hear it
and the humility to listen 
because it comes from the other

you marking my essays for me 
the eve before I get married
organised a party 

you and I giggling under a shared
umbrella whiwl the rain drenched us anyway 
both with two plaits

and us ditching 

the same song on the Airways gets us grooving in our seats
memories of carnage melon and asoka 

us holding fast to one another 
even if now oceans swell between us 

you and I, always





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